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Is it normal for sex to hurt a lot even when its the sixth time doing it?

Lionel

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1^# B M S Post at 2010-7-27 19:24 Show author

Is it normal for sex to hurt a lot even when its the sixth time doing it?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. Yes we use protection. The first time I had sex it was very painful. I did not experience bleeding until the third or fourth time. Despite the hymen tearing, it still is equally as painful as the first time.
Is it normal for sex to hurt a lot even when its the sixth time doing it? Why? Will it ever not hurt at all?
Answers; ideas; experiences; opinions; I'll take anything I can get. Thank you!

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Adam

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2^# B M S Post at 2010-7-27 19:24 Show author

you could be really tight and small down there. it is very common in women. I recommend using lube, ky. if it still hurts, go talk to your gyno she can prob tell you more about it.

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Lionel

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3^# B M S Post at 2010-7-27 19:24 Show author

depending on how old you are it depends on how developed your vagina is and what not. Also it could be the fact he's going to deep, my fiance does that just to spite me because it hurts too. you could possibly have some sort of infection but i wouldn't worry too much. It's probably just undeveloped but go to a OBGYN if it continues, Good Luck!

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4^# B M S Post at 2010-7-27 19:24 Show author

I can still be painful if you aren't sexually aroused enough (not enough foreplay, not being wet enough) or the guy not going slow enough, arousing you enough, or being too rough with you. Have you tired KY-Jelly or Astor-Glide? If it doesn't help, then you should see a doctor.

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5^# B M S Post at 2010-7-27 19:24 Show author

It's also possible for you to still have part of your hymen intact. Not every woman is lucky enough to have the whole thing tear, and if it heals back up, can tear every time your have sex. Try asking your OBGYN and make sure this isn't what's going on.

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6^# B M S Post at 2010-7-27 19:24 Show author

use lots of lube..and try masturbating often to get you comfortable with the feeling.

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7^# B M S Post at 2010-7-27 19:24 Show author

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8^# B M S Post at 2010-7-27 19:24 Show author

Common if there is a lack of lubrication and/or the male is circumcised.

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