does pulling on the lips of your vagina stretch it out?

my va-j seems HUGE! and im so self conschas about it, and everytime i stretch it, I feel guilty cuz i feel some how Im making it even bigger..
if this possible?
btw: Im aware i spelled conschas wrong but I wanted you guys to get the piont

Huge lips are such a turn on, and that is coming from a guy

I hate the "innie" type of vagina